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I am delighted to tell you that I am completely cured of Vaginismus! We have a healthy sex life now that I never dreamed I could ever have. I never imagined I would ever feel this way. I am truly happy and fulfilled and I just wanted to thank you for all your help. I could not have climbed that mountain without you. I hope you continue to help others.
Ray, I wanted to give you feedback after our session. I have to say that the 2 days after the session I was absolutely floating. I had the best sleeps I've had in years. Since then I am happier than I was and generally sleeping allot better. I find I am not as angry and my relationships are better. My boyfriend passed a comment on how much more relaxed I was and we are getting on better too...
Hi Ray, I wanted to update you on my weight loss success! of 3 stone. The gastric hypnotherapy band exercise that we did worked brilliantly; I find myself automatically eating less, smiling more, been upbeat and happy about my future. Oddly enough I have had no cravings at all, and continue to lose weight since we did the emotional work and addressed my beliefs.
Ray, thank you so much! Thanks again for last week. My mind is free of all that clutter and it seems to have had some positive effect, which is a really good thing for me. I'm recommending a friend to you, hope you don't mind!
Hi Ray, I wanted to thank you for your great help in my flying fears when I went to London at Easter. I was absolutely fine; especially going when I was actually surprised when we were coming into land it was so quick! Coming back was equally good, helped by no delays and smooth flights. I am going over again for a weekend later in June and I feel fine about it. Thank you so much for taking the time to help me, and I'm confident now that it will continue.
Aisling, I just want to thank you for yesterday - you were very patient with me! I feel great today and did a great presentation. I definitely have a better feeling about presenting at meetings and handling things in the future! I'm really grateful for what you've done.
Hi Aisling, Well I'm the proud mother of a beautiful baby boy Aidan!! I just wanted to say a massive thank you for ensuring that I was mentally prepared. My consultant couldn't believe it and asked how I mentally prepared myself, mid wife asked for a copy of my birthing plan to keep. I told everyone that asked in the hospital about you and hypnobirthing. Doc said he couldn't believe it for first baby and that my threshold for pain was remarkable!! So Aisling massive thank you.
Hi Aisling, I came to see you when I was beginning a cycle of IVF. I'm just dropping you a line to let you know I'm now almost 15 weeks pregnant. Things are going really well. I'm still a little anxious, but each week I get more confident and relaxed. I want to thank you for the work you did with me. I find I use the techniques frequently. I have praised and recommended you to many people since. Thanks again, regards,
Many Thanks Ray for all your support in helping me lose weight. I really needed ongoing support which has made all the difference in me losing and keeping the weight off. I know this is a year later, but I thought you’d like to know that I have still kept the weight off and I am very proud of myself and for you encouraging me along the way. I loved the Hypnosis you did with me as it made losing weight so much easier then I would have thought!
Aisling has helped me with a lot of different issues that I have had over the last year and I must say that I am astonished at what she has accomplished with me. I was really doubtful that I could get rid of some of my problems, but now I actually have and that is amazing. I highly recommend Aisling’s services to anyone who wants to make a change within themselves, because it has helped me tremendously.
5 Tips to help you improve the way you react to stress
It’s important to learn some self-help ways to reduce our stress response
As our stress levels increase, our response continues over a long period of time and puts our work effectiveness and health levels at risk.
Whether its work related, relationship based, health, family, life style been chaotic, it’s important to learn techniques and interventions that can help reverse our stress response.
Here are five suggestions that can help improve how our bodies respond to stressful situations.
1) Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Set aside a few minutes, be it at your work desk or on a couch at home. Make sure you have enough.
Working from the top of your head down to the tips of your toes! You start to relax all the muscles within 30 second segments, which helps release tension, tightness and stress within
1.Tense the muscles in your scalp for 30 seconds, lifting your ears if possible and clenching whatever possible.
2.Then relax and allow the tension to drain out of your head.
3.Repeat the process, starting with the muscles in your face moving down through the shoulders all the way to the feet.
Our unconscious mind, does not know the difference between what is real or imagined. Visualisation is great in managing and reducing stress levels once our attention moves towards what we would like to change in our lives that will bring about a positive change. Also allowing your mind to focus on images that are relaxing will bring in a quick level of calmness. This also helps in shifting our mental focus towards something that is less stressful.
3) Self-hypnosis to relax your mind.
Self-hypnosis is a way to tap into your unconscious mind and create a much deeper state of relaxation and plant suggestions that allow you to relax, let things roll off your back, and maintain habits that relieve stress."
There are some great audios for stress relief that you can download that will help you to destress tracks can be used for different goals, including depression or stress management.
4) Five minute mini-meditation is quick and relaxing.
While normal generally has a duration of 15-20 minutes, mini-meditations last up to five minutes. The purpose is to quickly minimize the body's stress response and immediately relax the mind build resilience meditation
"Taking a few minutes to focus inwardly can help you to stop focusing on the stressful situations around you, which can help you to get out of a mind-set of feeling threatened and allow you to reverse your stress response and feel more coherent within.
5) Cup of coffee with a close friend.
Perhaps even simpler than any of the above options would be finding support, whether it's through a friend, family member or a work colleague you can trust. You can get great insight and clarity when you hear yourself sharing your worries and stresses. Often you get the answers to your worries and concerns when sharing.
If you would like to come and visit us for a private one to one session and learn how to destress, we can teach you some additional relaxing techniques.